bits & pieces of my life

31 . female . singapore . loves my family, sk & my dog . music . movies . travelling . photography . reading .

Relationships

It’s a tough thing to handle isn’t it? Put in one more word - monogamous, and it makes it even tougher.

I went down to the annual CNY party held by HS tdy. N boy was almost every person I know playing for this camp there last nite. I bumped into my AXA colleague, an ex-colleague and also my ex! N a whole bunch of friends and familiar faces. Ain’t the community small with nowhere to go, lol.

Anyway, thing is… Ppl from the other camp tend to think tat our camp’s relationships usually don’t last long, needless to say forever ever after isn’t even possible. Frankly, be it from whichever camp, shit happens.

U may have seen this person w a partner few months back. Now when u bump into this person again, the partner is someone new! Or u know this person is with a particular someone, but then u caught this person making out with someone else!!

Monogamy… Is it really so difficult to stay faithful and committed in your relationship? I don’t know really. As what sk said, if u know u can’t keep yourself away, why put yourself in a situation where u know u can’t do the right thing? If I’m in a monogamous relationship, honesty n commitment comes naturally. Maybe I’m abnormal, nothing seems to tempt or distract me. To me, this are pre-requisites when u decide to enter a relationship.

On the other hand, there are the sluts! Who crave for attention, and feel a sense of achievement when they can get anyone they want. Why wreak havoc in other peoples’ relationships. If u want attention and sex, find someone foolish who is single! Do u really feel empowered when u can get people who are attach into your bed? We are all the same, show some fucking respect and decency. Then fuck off into that screwed up world of yours.

As been said above, relationships are really difficult to handle, with unlimited number of reasons which will screw it up. But I will hope that whatever happens to mine, if it doesn’t work out, wouldn’t be because of a third party. I think that’s the shittiest reason ever.